Few thoughts before my birthday

June 5, 2012

Birthday, Travel, Venice, Italy, Photography

One of my closest friends tends to measure her Birthday and the year that passed by the number of places she has visited and the number of people she fell in love with. In other words, a good year for her will be a year well travelled (to some new destinations) and a year she has experienced love or fell in love at least once. When she shared with me this information, I smiled and paused for a second but just because I had to think about her great idea and evaluate my past year according to her standards; Love and new destinations.

Looking back at where I was and what I did and how I celebrated my previous Birthday and having a check point to where I am at now (few days before my birthday) I must admit I have covered quite much of the plan. Yes, I’ve been traveling quite a lot for work or to catch up with family and friends and I met some interesting people.

Last year on my Birthday I packed my camera bag and another Gemini friend (Sharyn) and we went to Nassau, the Bahamas. We both wanted to escape New York for a while. We didn’t want to deal with velvet ropes or high priced drinks as we did in previous years on our Birthdays. Obviously the Bahamas was a great escape, even though I experienced a semi-Tornado storm on the day of my Birthday for the first time in my life.

On the day of our Birthdays we both wrote our goals for the next coming year (sort of a habit we keep). I think Sharyn wrote hers on a piece of paper and shoved it in a beer bottle and then she threw it to the water. I wrote mine on the back of a Murakami’s book I was reading back then. Whereas I am not sure how much did Sharyn complete her list, I think I covered almost 60% of mine.


It has been an exciting year for sure, and even though 60% of my goals were covered, I’ve managed to achieve some extra new ones I didn’t plan before;

I have traveled to some new destinations and came across different and various cultures. I made some new friends. I might even lost some. I tasted new kinds of food I would never imagine I try, not to mention where I found it. I learned how to translate my thoughts and ideas into pictures and words. I struggled with lighting equipment. I started to like negative space. I met and photographed famous people. I got nervous before doing that. I tried to decide what should be in focus. I took blurry pictures. I probably bad worded something up. I got confused more than once because of a guy. I considered getting off facebook few times. I finally gave in to Twitter. I found my name printed in some global websites and magazines. That was exciting! I got impatient so many times. I fell few times while running. I tried to be courageous. I talked to myself while taking the Subway. I took a 24 hour flight (almost non stop). I took a night train all the way from Hanoi to Sapa just to realize there was too much fog for a shoot. I took the midnight train back at the same day. I left my camera bag in the middle of a Starbucks in Tokyo. I watched a lot of French movies. I searched mostly for natural light. I took pictures of the interiors of other peoples homes and actually kind of liked it. I had some second thoughts regarding my unconventional life. I tried to forgive and forget. I had days based on coffee and dark chocolate. I tend to say YES to opportunities that came across and I freaked out when time was moving too fast.

And even though I feel I was quite slow paced the last couple of months, I can’t wait for the new ones to come.

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  • Reply Tracy Zhang June 5, 2012 at 3:47 am

    I think setting goals for yourself for the year and completing 60% of it is great. This last year definitely sounds like it’s been eventful for you, and I hope your next year will be even more so!

    • Reply Sivan June 5, 2012 at 10:45 am

      Thanks Tracy

  • Reply Chedva June 5, 2012 at 3:00 pm

    Slow paced? Let me rephrase: SLOW PACED?!
    Sivan, you achieved so much this year, been to so many places, done so many exciting (!) things… I’m just grateful I got to know you and spend time with you. I’m sure next year will be even better. Quicker or slower- I’ll leave that to you and fate. Happy almost birthday, dear friend.

  • Reply Sivan June 5, 2012 at 3:11 pm

    Thanks Chedva! I’m learning it all from you :-)

  • Reply Merav Sade June 5, 2012 at 7:39 pm

    עברית יותר קלה לי להשתפך..
    את כל כך נהדרת
    ומאחלת לך להשלים את ה 40% מהשנה הקודמת ועוד 60 מהחדשה
    אני כל כך שמחה שהכרנו
    ועל התרומה שלך לחיים שלי את יכולה להוסיף עוד כמה אחוזים.
    וסתם מהסקנות איזה ספר של מוריקמי קראת ? את שלי שכחתי בסיצילה

  • Reply Sivan June 5, 2012 at 7:46 pm

    Tnx Merav from Design Sponge :-)
    I read the book ‘What are you thinking about when you are running’ something like that :-)

  • Reply Allen May 17, 2013 at 6:54 am

    hey Sivan ..if this is “s+l+o+w p+a+c+e+d” then excitement in my nerves now Sivan.
    You are the best.

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